Drinking Hand Sanitizer To Get Drunk - What Will They Think Of Next?

From inserting alcohol soaked tampons into their bodies to pouring vodka shots in their eyeballs, it’s really hard to keep up with the latest trends in teenage substance use and abuse. Just when we thought we’d seen it all, six California teens landed in the emergency room after distilling hand sanitizer and drinking it to get drunk. Boy, our kids are looking for a quick fix aren’t they?

What are three things parents can do to prevent their kids from doing the same?

1.       Create a Parent Peer Group with the parents of your children’s friends to set rules and monitor your children environment and their behavior,

2.       Talk your children about the stupidity of distilling hand sanitizer and the potentially lethal consequences; ask if they heard of anything like this at their school.

3.       Don’t take chances, use alcohol-free hand sanitizer or the kind that foams in your home.

Do you work in a school or have your kids told you about any emerging drug trends? Share your info at www.facebook.com/informedfamilies.

Prom & Graduation: Life & Death Decisions

Today’s Informed Families Lunch & Learn event was entitled, “Prom & Graduation: Life & Death Decisions.” We had three fabulous speakers representing prevention, education, law enforcement and addiction treatment.  Here’s what we learned:

• If your teen gets caught with alcohol, they can be arrested and charged with a second degree misdemeanor which can stay on their permanent record.
• If your teen is caught with simply having a fake id, it is also a second degree misdemeanor.
• If your teen is caught trying to use the fake ID fraudulently (to buy alcohol, for example), they can be arrested and charged with a third degree felony.
• Parents or other adults can be arrested and charged for contributing to the delinquiency of a minor if they buy alcohol or do anything that will lead their children astray
• Parents can be arrested and charged with a 2nd degree misdemeanor for having an open house party, where they either know or should know that children are consuming alcohol or drugs, having failed to take reasonable steps to prevent it. 
• Alcohol and drug use among teens can significantly negatively impact learning, both on a short term and long term level.
• Set parameters with your children. Have a curfew, know their itinerary, monitor the venue. Supervise their activities. Know who they are hanging out with.
• Another good way to prevent your teens from making poor decisions is to role play with them. Ask, “what would you do if someone offered you alcohol,” for example.  By acting out these scenarios, children are more likely to feel comfortable doing the right thing.
• The most important thing parents need during the teenage years is to maintain a meaningful connection with their children. Spend more time listening than talking, for example. Ask difficult questions, even if you run the risk of embarrassing your children. The long term benefits outweigh the short term risk. Stay open minded and listen.
• Parents need to play a more active role in their children’s lives (be their parent not their friend) to prevent drug use and abuse from happening.
• Consider making policy changes within your sphere of influence. Talk to the school about developing policies that hinder drug use and abuse. Some schools ban prom and graduation after parties. Others require parents to drop off and pick up their children at the prom.

Do you still think teen drinking is a rite of passage? What are you doing to prevent your children from making decisions with devastating consequences?